35. Benefits

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I've tried to remember what I read in Alfie Kohn's book, the thing that made me think consequences weren't helpful. I must use discretion. Because between blocking all the errant web addresses and more clear and structured action, I feel stronger and everything is better.

I allow myself to remember they are kids.

Alfie said to ask Who benefits? And sometimes the class has benefited by removing someone. In other words, I'm seeing more clearly and feel more in control, yet can allow for some freedom.

Took long enough.